First, What Is Chronic Stress?

Chronic stress is when your body and mind are regularly in a state of tension or alertness, often as a response to chronic pressure — i.e., a stressful job, financial stress, domestic violence, caregiving, or simply the constant pressure to “do more” and “be more.”

What It Feels Like

You’re burning the candle at both ends, and you just push on. You get through the day even if you’re grouchy, tired, or cranky. Your mind is constantly playing over and over in your head: “Just one more thing, and then I’ll rest.”

Your nervous system is in a state of fight-or-flight, and your body is dumping stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline — which, ultimately, wear you out physically and mentally.

 Chronic Stress Signs

•  You’re always exhausted, even by small stuff.
• You’re always tired, but can’t sleep.
•  You’re more disoriented or forgetful — you go into rooms and can’t remember why.
•  You’ve got unstoppable sugar, carb, or caffeine cravings all the time.
• You’re irritable, short-tempered, or snappish most of the time.
•  Body symptoms: headaches, digestive complaints, tense shoulders, thumping heart.
•  Sleep is off – can’t sleep, waking up all the time, or never waking up feeling rested.
•  You’re performing everything that you believe you must to keep all of the balls flying, but you can’t let any of them fall.
• You might still be getting by on the outside — making it to work, texting back, getting the work done — but inside, you’re exhausted.

 Then Comes Burnout…

Burnout is what occurs when you give zero attention to chronic stress long enough. It’s not that you’re working too hard — it’s a catch-all for emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion.

• Burnout is not “burned out.” It’s numb.
• It’s your brain and body screaming: “I can’t do this anymore.”

Signs of Burnout

 Emotional exhaustion – You just don’t care. No passion. No joy. You’re just empty.

 Detachment – You put people off at arm’s length, including loved ones. You don’t want or need responsibility or work.

Cognitive fog – You just can’t concentrate. What shouldn’t be hard can’t be accomplished.

Blunted feelings – You’re not energetic, sad, angry — numb.

Cynicism – You can feel let down, resentful, hopeless, particularly concerning work or other individuals.

No energy to play catch-up – You’re just as tired on weekends or days off.

Loss of sense of self or purpose – You might be wondering: Who am I even anymore?

A Human Perspective: What It Feels Like

• Chronic stress is when you’re wearing a heavy pack every day, but you just keep re-adjusting the straps and pushing on.
• Burnout is when your back is pulled out in strings by the pack, and you’re alone on the sidewalk — and you can’t even remember why you were going there in the first place.

What to Do if You’re Feeling Either

If you’re experiencing chronic stress:

Begin small, with daily acts of self-care: 10-minute walks, writing, stretching.

• Establish boundaries — practice a “no” where you can.
• Dial down the din — switch off doom-scrolling, multitasking, and excessive caffeine.
• Walk it out — a coach, counselor, or even a close friend can walk you through the stress.

If you’re burnt out:

Stop. Don’t “take a break” just yet. You must take away or end the stressor entirely, if possible.

• Get help now – burnout is destructive if left unaddressed. Work it out with a mental health professional.
• Rebuild with rest — but not just sleep. Real rest includes:

1. Nature
2.  Creativity
3.  Safe connection
4.  Stillness (meditation, quiet time)

Reconnect with your values, not just your roles.

Final Words

Chronic stress and burnout aren’t weaknesses. They’re warning signals from your body and brain. They’re saying:

“You’ve been strong for too long without enough care.”

• Heeding those signals — even if it requires slowing down, retreating, or drawing a line — is an exercise in strength and wisdom.
• And if you are on the path, don’t be fearful; you are not alone. And the best news: there is healing. Piece by piece, rest by rest, boundary by boundary — you can heal yourself.